The Stop Yelling Program
Step-by-Step Training for Your Biggest Parenting Win
Have you become a yeller?
There’s nothing wrong with you and you’re not a bad parent if you’re yelling too much. It’s a habit you can change. I’ve dialed in the process of teaching parents how to stop yelling and be calmer. Let me show you the way, too.
Learn the science-backed process and get personalized coaching for 90 days.
Our top-notch training program brings Laine’s book to life with weekly coaching, self-paced lessons, practical tools, and group support. In weekly Office Hours you can ask questions as you go through the course. This is the ultimate playbook for your stop yelling success!
We’re all-in on teaching parents how to stop yelling. Here’s Why:
01
It's the #1 Problem
Parents report yelling as their biggest issue. Learning how to stop yelling lets us control ourselves so we can calmly address our child’s frustrating behavior.
02
Yelling Sucks
Parents hate seeing the aftermath of their yelling – trembling lips, sad eyes, heavy hearts. Learning how to stop yelling replaces shame and guilt with calm and connection.
03
The Halo Effect
The skills required to stay calm transfer to a wide range of parenting issues. Learning how to stop yelling makes you feel more confident, competent, and empowered in general.
Your Coach - Laine Lipsky
Parent Educator, Professional Coach, BA/MAT Brown University, Author, Athlete, Mom, Founder of Calm Heart Parenting💕
I’ve experienced tough parenting assignments both personally and professionally. For 30 years, I worked with children facing social, emotional, and behavioral challenges, and then I became a mom myself, navigating the lack of proper support for parents in similar situations.
Drawing from my background as an elite athlete, coach, and professional life coach, I developed a unique approach rooted in Attachment, Empathy, and Habit Building. After testing my methods, I saw incredible results, especially for parents with tough assignments.
For over a decade, I’ve helped overwhelmed parents build confidence, competence, and calm. Let’s see if I can help you, too.
The Stop Yelling Program Overview
What’s Included:
- One copy of the book Stop Yelling by Laine Lipsky, delivered right to your door
- 90-day access to live Office Hours on Zoom for personalized attention
- Four Modules: 14 short, self-paced lessons to walk you through the program
- 18 Printables: game-time scripts, personal assignments, progress charts
- Eight Drills: video trainings to get calm, practice mindfulness, and develop mindset
- Daily support in our private parent community: ask, celebrate, get a boost, give a boost
What Our Students Say
“I learned to stop yelling and love my children for their uniqueness.”
Gloria L.
Mom of Three (4yo, 6yo, 20yo)
“Laine’s guidance made an extraordinary difference in my parenting and relationship with my challenging son. Truly life-changing.”
Jack D.
Single Dad of One (12yo)
“When I want to yell, I now have a plan and an approach that really works. Laine taught me ways to stay calm and genuinely connect with my daughter.”
Tatum R.
Mom of One (3yo)
“Laine is the most uplifting coach – THE BEST. She walks the journey with every single parent in her program in a way that makes us feel confident and calm.”
Valerie L.
Mom of Four (4yo, 6yo, 9yo, 12yo)
“I honestly don’t know how I would have survived these turbulent years without Laine’s guidance and support.”
Ann L.
Mom of Two (15yo, 17yo)
“When I have a hard time with my strong-willed son, I use Laine’s methods and BAM! the meltdowns stop!”
Carrie S.
Single Mom of One (7yo)
The Curriculum
MODULE 1: PRE-GAME
Overview
Step 1: Set an Intention
Step 2: Check the Tanks
Step 3: Get Informed
Welcome: Warm Up
1: Personal Hello from Laine
2: Overview of the Stop Yelling process
MODULE 2: GAME Time
Overview
Step 4: Contain
Step 5: Connect
Step 6: Coach
MODULE 3: GAME Time
Overview
Step 7: Take Notes
Step 8: Adjust
Step 9: Try Again
MODULE 4: Cool Down
Follow Through
What You Learn:
- Our proven step-by-step process to extinguish the yelling habit
- Pre-Game preparation to eliminate the urge to yell
- Game-Time methods to pivot away from yelling to calmly responding
- Play-by-Play instructions to stop exploding, even in heated moments
- Post-Game strategies to build on your success
Plus How To:
- Crack the code of your child’s frustrating behaviors
- Improve behavior and increase cooperation
- Stay present to promote healthy parent-child bonds
- Model being calm, which helps your child calm down, too
- Make inner peace and outer-calm your new go-to habits
- Set the stage for everyone to be calmer and reduce yelling
- Stay on track as you develop new skills and habits
- Lock-in your new habits for your long-term success
Other Benefits Include:
- Gaining more cooperation from your child and eliminating the dread associated with bedtime, mealtime, bathtime, or any other challenging moments.
- Stop worrying about whether you’re damaging your child and find yourself with more energy to play and laugh together
- Relaxing more often
- Feeling more confident about your parenting skills and choices
- Sleeping better with a calm heart
- Experiencing more inner peace and outer calm
- Looking forward to family time and belonging to a supportive tribe of parents in the program
Our Approach
We take an athletic approach and rely on best practices from three key disciplines:
Coaching
We take an athletic approach to parenting. We provide the best team, tools, training, and mindset so you can get the results you want.
Psychology
Our methods are rooted in Attachment Theory, Positive Psychology, and Human Development. We deliver carefully-curated information so you don’t have to sort it out yourself.
Mindfulness
Ample research shows the physical and mental health benefits of practicing Mindfulness. We offer proven techniques and expert instruction.
You might be thinking…
Maybe I’m missing the “good parent gene.” Shouldn’t it be easier than this? You’re not alone in your fear. A lot of loving parents wonder the very same thing! Here’s what I tell them:
Parenting is a learned skill, not an innate gift you’re born with.
It’s like riding a bike. It might feel wobbly at first, but with the right tools, practice and guidance, you’ll gain momentum. It’s never too late to learn how to stop yelling. You just need a great teacher, an open mind, and a willingness to try new techniques. If you’ve got those, what once felt hard will start to feel more natural!
We are not rookies –
We’ve got this dialed in.
Disrupting the yelling cycle and calmly responding to your child is a learnable skill set. The skills themselves are not a secret – but how to convert those skills into a new habit is our specialty.
Learn. Practice. Reflect. Repeat. Our step-by-step approach makes it simple to build the skills and cultivate calm as your new habit. As a coach, athlete, and educator, I know how to get results.
Our Process
We use a simple framework and top-notch support to make learning easy for you:
01
Pre-Game
The steps to take before interactions with your child. We teach you how to set up for success by reducing stress, preparing your environment, and understanding what’s going on beneath the surface for both you and your child.
02
Game Time
The steps to take during interactions with your child. We teach you exactly what to say, do, and even think to manage yourself in the heat of the moment. We break down the process into micro-moments so you feel confident and prepared.
03
Post-Game
The steps to take after interactions with your child. Every great coach takes notes after a game. We teach you how to gently assess what happened so you know what to replicate and what to adjust for next time.
04
Follow-Through
The support needed to make your new habits stick. We provide scripts, cheat-sheets, reminders, checklists, and video trainings so you have long-term success. We’re all about results and we know what it takes to get them.
05
Office Hours
Weekly live online group coaching to answer questions, give high-fives, and support your process. The Stop Yelling Program is not another parenting book to sit around collecting dust and creating guilt. We offer the right support for this important goal. We are here for you with love.
Join to learn how to stop yelling –
you’ll also get so much more.
Learning how to stop yelling sets the stage for better parenting and happier homes. When parents are calmer, they can access the better choices they want to make so they don’t just “know better” they can actually “do better.”
We believe parenting is a team sport, not a DIY project. The best transformation programs offer coaching and community for 3 reasons: support, learning, and accountability. Check, check, check. We’ve got it covered.
We provide and lovingly hold a safe space for every parent in the program to feel seen, supported, and celebrated. In Office Hours and on our parent community board, every question is answered and every parent is respected.
If you’re looking for a no-nonsense and supportive tribe to be your training buddies, this is the place to find it. We’re waiting for you with open arms.
FAQs
Parents with children ages 0–16 years. If you love your child(ren) but are currently yelling often enough to make you feel guilty or concerned, this program is for you.
We take an athletic approach to parenting and rely on best practices from a variety of sources. Our process applies elements of Coaching, Psychology, and Mindfulness. In The Stop Yelling Program we promote empathy, love, and limits.
All yelling feels awful but only you know if it’s too much. That said, signs of excessive yelling are when a parent feels the urge to yell is outside their control, yelling has become a regular pattern, and you believe your kids “only listen when I yell.”
Don’t just take our word for it; check out our testimonials. For over a decade, I’ve taught these steps to hundreds of parents. When followed, the steps empower parents to be calmer and happier.
Each lesson is short – some a few minutes, the longest are about 20 minutes. Total self-paced instruction time is 3 hours. Office Hours are 1 hour each week. Practice is about 5 minutes daily.
Parents from all family systems are welcome. Office Hours maintain a safe, supportive atmosphere.
Yes. This course helps all parents. That said, if your parenting needs exceed the scope of the program, please email us to learn about alternatives.
We mail your book to the address provided during checkout.
Sure, but the course is designed to get maximum results for parents. We know books tend to sit on the nightstand collecting dust and creating guilt. For best outcomes, join the program.
Every Thursday, 12:00pm – 1:00pm PST
Office Hours occur in our confidential members-only Zoom room.
Yes! Every student may ask one question per Office Hour. We will answer as many as we can. If time runs short, we will answer remaining questions in our members-only online group.
Our course offers a game-changing combination of the very best information taught by a seasoned, renowned parenting coach and master teacher. We also provide live office hours for everyone to ask questions and get purposeful feedback. We take an athletic training approach to parenting because parenting is the mother of all marathons. We are confident you will love your results.
Laine is a Master Teacher with dual degrees from Brown University, Parent Educator, Certified Professional Coach, collegiate athletic coach, former elite athlete, and mom. In addition to her private practice, Laine is an author, public speaker, and has been featured in multiple outlets.
If you participate fully (attend all office hours, use our methods, and practice daily) you will be a calmer and happier parent. Yelling will dramatically reduce and could stop completely. Of course, results vary. In the end, dear friend, your results are up to you.
Refund requests within 7 days of registration will be honored. Keep the book with our compliments.
A $30 administrative fee applies.
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